tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367567467088754021.post200666875108808166..comments2012-09-20T16:23:20.674-07:00Comments on Something For The People on the Interwebs: I Can't Believe I'm Posting ThisGreen Thumbelinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17469625380070737487noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367567467088754021.post-11017845730519166392012-09-06T06:11:09.602-07:002012-09-06T06:11:09.602-07:00Not too harsh at all, I know it brings up a lot of...Not too harsh at all, I know it brings up a lot of weird questions. I hear what you're saying. In all reality maybe I know it's just not going to work with him but it feels more like I want both things equally, him and a baby. But I can't have his now so I'm trying to figure it out. Maybe there just isn't a way around it. One or the other, ya know?<br /><br />Thanks for your input. Seriously much appreciated! I have many thoughts to think.Green Thumbelinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17469625380070737487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-367567467088754021.post-69176993268860453602012-08-22T10:53:39.500-07:002012-08-22T10:53:39.500-07:00This sounds like a bunch of tough decisions, wow. ...This sounds like a bunch of tough decisions, wow. And congrats on your honesty. <br /><br />I'm not sure what I think about it... I don't know, that if I wanted a baby really badly, if I'd be "okay" with my guy not wanting to give me one. I think I would be really hurt. <br /><br />Also, I don't think having a baby by way of sperm donation is going to have your man being as "free" of responsibility as he wants to be, though.<br /><br />Because really, if you have a child, no matter how you go about it, YOU HAVE A CHILD. And that child will be a HUGE, HUGE part of your life, a part that it sounds like your guy maybe doesn't want... not sure how that would work... it might be like trying to split yourself in half, and I don't think that would be happy or healthy for you. Your child will be a part of who you are, and I don't think the guy you love is allowed to just like "some" of who you are. <br /><br />Sorry if anything I just said was too harsh or hard to hear. Just trying to give you an opinion, since you asked. Email me if you ever need to talk- I know we're strangers but I'm happy to help if I can. :)<br /><br />Oh and by the way, sperm donation itself is not crazy at all. It exists for a very important reason. The Managementhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12156764149777325182noreply@blogger.com